Re: 12 Months in and stuck
Posted: Fri Feb 13, 2026 10:34 pm
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aussie_surfer wrote: ↑Fri Feb 13, 2026 10:34 pm Thanks for your message. Very sorry about the health system in the UK it sounds dreadful.
It is atrocious and completely appalling that in 2026, mainstream medicine has not caught up to the issue of pudendal neuropathy, and that the pelvic nerve pain landscape is as it is. Patients are left to fend for themselves and attempt to seek their own care, often internationally in specialised centres at their own expense. That is, if they are able to afford it at all. It’s just appalling - every one of us has a pelvis, and I am absolutely certain that pudendal neuropathy is NOT as rare as the medical bureaucracy have us believe. Misdiagnosis is rampant.
And it is all too easy for some pain specialists to dismiss this as some kind of “centralised pain” that “should have healed by now”, what a load of insulting garbage is that!!! — We are dealing with a peripheral nerve lesion, either an irritation or an entrapment! — What does shut them down is if you ask them, why is it the case then that a pudendal nerve block results in a completely pain free period for 12 hours??? If it was a ‘centralised pain mechanism or memory’ the block would have no effect!!!
I must let you know about specialist MRN, please do all the investigation you can radiologically, if you are able to. It can easily see and view the proximal pudendal nerve through its course at its exit from the lumbosacral plexus in the sciatic notch, at the level of the ischial spine and in the Alcock’s Canal, if it is interpreted by an expert. It can also very well identify changes in perineural fat surrounding the nerve, and impingement or thickening of the obturator internus fascia. The inferior rectal branch is also often visualised.
The below anatomical MRI study of the pudendal nerve shows that the proximal trunk of the pudendal nerve is clearly visualised on MRI.
https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC4965354/
Dr Hollis Potter has developed specialist software to conduct and interpret pudendal nerve MRN. The average suburban MRN is unfortunately useless for PN interpretation, and patients need to be seen in a specialist centre such as with Potter or Chhabra.
And here is a video by Professor Chhabra (an actual author of the above anatomical MRI study), showing ability of MRN to see the pudendal nerve, including its branching in the ischiorectal fossa:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=p_Q01oNfkho
The expert peripheral nerve surgeons such as Aszmann and Lakhiani rely a lot more on MRI when dealing with pudendal nerve pathology, and use it routinely for surgical planning. The gynaecologists such as Bautrant and Hibner are more dismissive of it.
Best wishes! Keep fighting!!
You are very informed and you are right in all you say.my right pudendal have problems in both alcock canal and perineal branch.i only have horrible constant urinary symptoms.sadly transgluteal decom or abdominal one can t reach perineal branch good but are best for alcock canal....surgeons that decompress perineal branch in males are very few....i am kinda confusedaussie_surfer wrote: ↑Wed Feb 11, 2026 11:07 pmeraser wrote: ↑Wed Feb 11, 2026 8:39 pm Yes, but if you are a position where you cannot tolerate it any longer and conservative measures have not worked, action needs to be taken even if there are risks. Instead, I praise courage in battling this evil disease, as the reality is that the conservative measures often fail.
What would you recommend instead? Assisted suicide? It really isn't helpful when people say don't have surgery as you can get worse, as people have and do get better with surgery. Any surgery carries risk. Would you ban surgery for every single condition? As there is always a risk that people can get worse with surgery.
What would be more useful is some good stats about the actual risk.
I think what you are also forgetting to ask is whether outcome affected by how long the person has had the condition.
Appreciate your best intentions here but your perspective reflects that of some pain consultants. Instead, they want people continue to take medicines that don't work, be unable to work and to go to groups where people complain about their poor quality of life. Personally, I would rather risk surgery than immediately contacting dignitas.
aussie_surfer wrote: ↑Wed Feb 11, 2026 12:31 pm
Be aware of the risks is all I am saying. Please review the following example in the thread below:
viewtopic.php?t=9268&hilit=Ploteau
Hello,
Thank you for taking the time to explain your perspective so candidly.
I want to start by saying I completely understand the desperation that can come with severe, unrelenting pudendal pain. When conservative treatments have failed and quality of life is profoundly affected, it is entirely valid for someone to consider surgery despite the risks. That is not something I dismiss, and I certainly am not suggesting that people should simply “live with it” indefinitely.
However, your response reads as though my comments may have felt invalidating or confronting to you — and that genuinely concerns me. My intention was not to discourage people from pursuing surgery if that is their informed choice, nor to suggest hopelessness. Rather, my aim was to emphasise that informed consent must include a clear understanding of the limitations and risks of this specific surgery.
You are absolutely right that all surgery carries risk. But pudendal nerve decompression carries particular risks that patients deserve to understand clearly. These include:
* Worsening neuropathic pain
* Permanent nerve injury
* New sensory deficits
* Sexual dysfunction
* Bowel or bladder dysfunction
* Scar-related re-entrapment
* No improvement despite major surgery
* Increased complexity and risk with revision procedures
The issue is not “ban surgery” — it is ensuring that the right surgery is performed for the right pathology.
Decompression can only work if the surgeon can reach the actual site of entrapment. Many surgeons perform a standardised proximal decompression (e.g., transgluteal or laparoscopic). If the entrapment is distal — for example, within a pudendal nerve branch such as the perineal or dorsal nerve — a proximal decompression will not address the problem. In that scenario, the patient undergoes major surgery without the procedure ever reaching the true pain generator.
That is a technical and anatomical limitation, not a philosophical one.
You also raise an important question about duration of symptoms. There is evidence that long-standing neuropathic pain can involve central sensitisation, which may influence outcomes. That makes proper patient selection, diagnostic clarity, and surgical precision even more critical.
I agree that what would be helpful is transparent data — including:
* Clear success rates (with definitions of “success”)
* Rates of worsening
* Revision rates
* Stratification by symptom duration and diagnostic criteria
* Outcomes by surgical approach
Patients deserve those statistics presented openly, not framed solely through optimism or solely through fear.
My perspective is not that of “keep people on ineffective medications and in support groups forever.” Nor is it that surgery should never be considered. It is simply that when surgery is considered, it should be based on precise anatomical targeting based on suspected or identified entrapment site through assessment and specialised MRN, surgeon selection, realistic outcome data, and a full appreciation of the risks — especially given that not all entrapments are proximal and not all surgeons individualise their approach, some surgeons are actually able to customise their approach if a distal entrapment is suspected. But most do not.
If you are able to do this, I suggest you travel to a specialised centre in the US to undergo pudendal MR neurography with a neuro-radiological expert who can assess you. I attach the below video to assist your understanding of what can actually be seen by a properly protocolled and interpreted MRN:
https://youtu.be/p_Q01oNfkho?si=njk0C69kBULlTJQc
I truly respect the courage it takes to face this condition. At the same time, courage and caution are not opposites — they can and should coexist.
Sending you my best wishes and immense hope.