Effexor withdrawal - CPPS or PGAD?
Posted: Sun Aug 03, 2025 3:17 pm
Hello, I am sorry if this a little long. Here is a quick summary:
I am a 37-year-old male experiencing distressing symptoms during protracted withdrawal from Effexor (venlafaxine). My main issues are extreme premature ejaculation and new PGAD-like symptoms, where I get unwanted genital arousal sensations from mechanical triggers like driving or walking.
These arousal sensations became much more prominent after a doctor suggested PGAD, which caused me to obsessively worry and become hyper-aware of the area. Importantly, the arousal is not constant, and orgasm provides significant relief for over 24 hours. A urologist found nothing wrong, and a pelvic floor PT did not note a particularly hypertonic pelvic floor.
I'm trying to figure out if this is likely true PGAD, a form of CPPS or nerve sensitization from withdrawal, or a symptom that is being heavily amplified by my anxiety and hyper-focus.
Full context :
I want to know if I am dealing with potential PGAD or something else. I am a 37 year old male in otherwise good health. Here is some back story:
- I was on Effexor XR 75mg for 8 years. I tapered off it linearly in 6 months, was off for 2 months completely, then got hit with protracted withdrawal. Symptoms were insomnia, extreme premature ejaculation, severe anxiety, extreme OCD, and others. It has currently been over 5.5 months that I finished my taper. I reinstated 2.5mg after the symptom onset, and have been on this reinstatement dose for 3.5 months so far. Symptoms have greatly improved, however one new(ish?) symptom started appearing: pgad-like symptoms.
- For a bit more backstory, while on Effexor, maybe 4-5 years ago, I started getting pelvic pressure feelings, on and off. It would come for a few weeks, then subside. I had my prostate checked etc, nothing was found.
- Fast forward to this period in my withdrawal, I have the same feelings now, however, this is coupled with extremely sensitive genitals and extreme premature ejaculation (I can often ejaculate when aroused without touching and before a full erection).
- I have had tests done around my prostate and have seen a urologist. Everything seemed normal. I also see a pelvic floor physical therapist, who did some inner work and did not notice a particularly hypertonic pelvic floor.
- I haven’t been having lingering, position independant genital arousal yet. However, one night I woke up from a wet dream that wasn’t sexual. I fell back asleep and almost ejaculated on the same wet dream. I woke up in a panic, and then remembered something a doctor told me: he said I might have PGAD instead of PSSD, what I was fearing initially. He determined that when I said I had extreme premature ejaculation. At that point, I started worrying obsessively about the pgad issue. And at that point, I started thinking about my genital area alot, and noticed more and more “arousal” sensations throughout every day life. For example, when driving in the car, I could feel some arousal in my genitals sometimes. Sometimes, when my child is sitting in my lap, I could feel the mechanical arousal (very disturbing).
- Since I have been suspecting PGAD, I have orgasmed twice. Orgasming has reduced the feeling greatly for a long period of time (24 hours +), making me less sensitive. To be clear, I do not always feel the feeling of arousal. It comes and goes, mainly when there is mechanical sensation around it.
- Yesterday night, it had been 12 days since I orgasmed, and I had just swam in my salt water pool. I was fine all day, no arousal sensations. But when I went for a walk to the park after, I felt a lot of mechanical stimulation which put me in a constant state of uncomfortable arousal while I was walking. It persisted during the entire walk. When I got home, I took a bath, where the feeling was still kind of there (and my focus was there a lot also). I squeezed the tip of my penis a few seconds and ejaculated. I felt relief somewhat afterwards, however I didn't sleep much at night out of fear of developing chronic pgad.
- So my theory is either I have some kind of mild / escalating pgad, or cpps with premature ejaculation, and this may or may not be psychosomatic. It is a strange coincidence that pgad -like symptoms started appearing when I started worrying / obsessing about it, even if genital sensitivity was present before.
- What is my most likely diagnosis? And what should I do?
I am a 37-year-old male experiencing distressing symptoms during protracted withdrawal from Effexor (venlafaxine). My main issues are extreme premature ejaculation and new PGAD-like symptoms, where I get unwanted genital arousal sensations from mechanical triggers like driving or walking.
These arousal sensations became much more prominent after a doctor suggested PGAD, which caused me to obsessively worry and become hyper-aware of the area. Importantly, the arousal is not constant, and orgasm provides significant relief for over 24 hours. A urologist found nothing wrong, and a pelvic floor PT did not note a particularly hypertonic pelvic floor.
I'm trying to figure out if this is likely true PGAD, a form of CPPS or nerve sensitization from withdrawal, or a symptom that is being heavily amplified by my anxiety and hyper-focus.
Full context :
I want to know if I am dealing with potential PGAD or something else. I am a 37 year old male in otherwise good health. Here is some back story:
- I was on Effexor XR 75mg for 8 years. I tapered off it linearly in 6 months, was off for 2 months completely, then got hit with protracted withdrawal. Symptoms were insomnia, extreme premature ejaculation, severe anxiety, extreme OCD, and others. It has currently been over 5.5 months that I finished my taper. I reinstated 2.5mg after the symptom onset, and have been on this reinstatement dose for 3.5 months so far. Symptoms have greatly improved, however one new(ish?) symptom started appearing: pgad-like symptoms.
- For a bit more backstory, while on Effexor, maybe 4-5 years ago, I started getting pelvic pressure feelings, on and off. It would come for a few weeks, then subside. I had my prostate checked etc, nothing was found.
- Fast forward to this period in my withdrawal, I have the same feelings now, however, this is coupled with extremely sensitive genitals and extreme premature ejaculation (I can often ejaculate when aroused without touching and before a full erection).
- I have had tests done around my prostate and have seen a urologist. Everything seemed normal. I also see a pelvic floor physical therapist, who did some inner work and did not notice a particularly hypertonic pelvic floor.
- I haven’t been having lingering, position independant genital arousal yet. However, one night I woke up from a wet dream that wasn’t sexual. I fell back asleep and almost ejaculated on the same wet dream. I woke up in a panic, and then remembered something a doctor told me: he said I might have PGAD instead of PSSD, what I was fearing initially. He determined that when I said I had extreme premature ejaculation. At that point, I started worrying obsessively about the pgad issue. And at that point, I started thinking about my genital area alot, and noticed more and more “arousal” sensations throughout every day life. For example, when driving in the car, I could feel some arousal in my genitals sometimes. Sometimes, when my child is sitting in my lap, I could feel the mechanical arousal (very disturbing).
- Since I have been suspecting PGAD, I have orgasmed twice. Orgasming has reduced the feeling greatly for a long period of time (24 hours +), making me less sensitive. To be clear, I do not always feel the feeling of arousal. It comes and goes, mainly when there is mechanical sensation around it.
- Yesterday night, it had been 12 days since I orgasmed, and I had just swam in my salt water pool. I was fine all day, no arousal sensations. But when I went for a walk to the park after, I felt a lot of mechanical stimulation which put me in a constant state of uncomfortable arousal while I was walking. It persisted during the entire walk. When I got home, I took a bath, where the feeling was still kind of there (and my focus was there a lot also). I squeezed the tip of my penis a few seconds and ejaculated. I felt relief somewhat afterwards, however I didn't sleep much at night out of fear of developing chronic pgad.
- So my theory is either I have some kind of mild / escalating pgad, or cpps with premature ejaculation, and this may or may not be psychosomatic. It is a strange coincidence that pgad -like symptoms started appearing when I started worrying / obsessing about it, even if genital sensitivity was present before.
- What is my most likely diagnosis? And what should I do?